June 7th, 2009 | Posted in news | 1 Comment »
This is the latest in a series of entries by guest bloggers throughout the high school spring sports season. Sammi Nemchek is in her fourth-year as a starter on Trinity Catholic’s softball team. Her father, Mike, coached many of the city’s top players in youth leagues, including his daughter. Sammi and Mike explore the topical nature of the parent-athlete dynamic. This is Sammi’s final entry.)
By Sammi Nemchek
“You can learn little from victory. You can learn everything from defeat.”- Christy Matthewson
Today at noon I graduate from Trinity Catholic High School. As I reflect back on the past four years, I could not have had a better experience than I did playing softball for the Crusaders.
As an incoming freshman I was welcomed onto the team, and even though I was much younger than everyone else I felt a part of it and as I belonged.
Throughout the years I played with all different kinds of players with all different abilities. One thing we always shared in common, however, was the love of the game.
Each year it was hard to say goodbye, now I can’t believe I’m the one saying goodbye.
During my career I learned great work ethic and teamwork. Every year I improved, and the team improved together as well. I was taught leadership and was able to use this trait in my senior season. The lessons I’ve learned during softball I will carry with me through life.
This past season we lost a number of great players and the turnout at tryouts was not high. But the ones that wanted to play, really wanted to play, and gave it their absolute all, which made all the difference in the end.
We worked hard and got along great as a team. One lesson we were once given was to all form a circle with our arms around one another. This was to symbolize us as one and to not let anything from the inside or outside break us.
We supported each other through everything, good plays and bad plays, through triples and strikeouts. Whatever happened is what happened, and we carried on. I feel this helped a great deal; for example the team was really able to lift my spirits and confidence up when I was having an off game, and I could not thank them enough for that.
I could also not thank the coaches enough for all the dedication they gave to us, and our fans for their support and encouragement. It’s the little things you overlook until you realize you’re done.
Our biggest accomplishment, I feel, was making both FCIACs and States. As a senior it was nice to go out after our team had such a great season. We had nothing to lose, but everything to gain. And together I believe we gained a lot.
During an interview a reporter once asked how in a 1-1 game our team could play so relaxed in the 7th inning? But that is exactly what Trinity softball is about. It is all about fun and trying your best.
I’m really going to miss all the fun that came with it, especially the bus rides and good friendships that developed.
To anyone who’s ever on the fence about playing, play. Get involved and have some school spirit. You’ll be missing out on a lot and will definitely regret passing up the opportunity.
Nothing is better than playing in front of your family, with all your closest friends, in the Stamford community.
Congratulations and good luck to the class of 2009!